All about Scorpio Man

Scorpio man – 23 October – 22 November

Introduction

Boundless energy is the term that comes to my mind when I think of Scorpio men. They are so full of life and vitality; it’s a surprise how they manage to do umpteen tasks in a day. The fervour in their nature can be matched only by Aries men. But the catch here is with the Scorpion his passion borders dangerously near obsession.

Extremely fond of good clothes and good food, you might find him indulging in either of these quite often. The Scorpio guy is also extremely attached to his money… he is frequently seen taking measures to double it!

While he is fun to be with, he can get possessive of his relationships, especially girlfriends. Life with him will undoubtedly be a passionate affair but like every passion it has its fallouts. Living life in excesses, the Scorpio man’s nature is a two-sided sword… if he loves you God help you, if he hates you God help you double quick!

How to identify a Scorpio man in a crowd?

A Scorpio man displays the right mix of passion and composure. He is passionate about work, help, conversations, dressing, food and just about everything. Around 70% Scorpio men come across as passive in nature but can get aggressive when provoked. And the 30% who are actually aggressive can be passive and diplomatic when needed.

In spite of possessing diplomacy and humility, Scorpio men are reasonably arrogant. It is quite easy to identify a Scorpio man – he’s the one smooth talking everyone, especially women. If not that, you will find him in intense conversation involving money, work, and investments… generally about stuff related to economics.

Known to be extremely enterprising, he has ‘growth’ on his mind always. It’s not surprising to find a Scorpio man getting maximum promotions in an office environment.

How does he score on the following points?

Appearance: He is extremely stylish and fashionable. He is amongst the first few, like the Aries man, to adopt and adapt to new trends and fashions. His looks and appearance matter a lot to him and he is very conscious of the same. Both Scorpio men and women have fiery eyes.

A Scorpio man likes to be well groomed… to the extent of carrying a comb in his pocket. The need to be always immaculate is so intense in him that he won’t even shy away from shaving his chest to go swimming. That’s grooming to a tee, I say! That is one of the things a Scorpio man has common with an Aries man.

Ambition: There is an essential difference between being ambitious and enterprising. Scorpio men are very enterprising and have tremendous risk taking ability. No matter what field he is in, for the Scorpion the sky’s the limit. If he likes you he will not hesitate to share his ideas with you but yes, he can get superstitious about his plans.

Be it his own venture or someone else’s, a Scorpio man is a great motivator. Added to that is his warm and affectionate nature, which makes him extremely popular.

What are the general traits of a Scorpio man?

If there is a goddess of passion then Scorpio men are her true devotees. So much is this man taken in by whatever he does, loves or has… there is no other word to describe him but ‘passionate’. And his passion often makes him go into excesses with everything that he does. Believing in living a larger than life image, a Scorpio man will let his hair lose in any enterprise that catches his fancy… from working in the wee hours of the night to partying till morning.

In spite of the burning ardour he has within, it is rarely displayed on his face. He has a ‘cool dude’ image, which at times is carried to the extreme of coldness. But it should not be mistaken for indifference as he is concerned about all and sundry that touches his life.

Is there something more to his personality?

Yes there is a darker side to a Scorpio man’s personality. There are certain aspects which I have found unique to Scorpions.

A Scorpio man is afraid of death or disaster. He is therefore an easy victim to superstitions and the knick-knacks that accompany it. He will be taken up by curiosity to know his future and is also likely to take help of astrology, tarot card reading and numerology to know what is to come. Apart from wealth, prosperity and happiness, the one thing that preoccupies his mind is death… the inevitable stop to all his enterprises.

Another factor that keeps him in check is ‘public’. He knows his image depends a lot on what the general public thinks about him. He is always conscious of his image… including his dress, grooming, the car he travels in, the restaurants he eats at etc. He is therefore forever striving to make good impression on people around him and create a positive public image and opinion.

There is no word like mediocre in a Scorpio man’s dictionary. He believes in living life king size and has the courage and vision to achieve it. Actually he is not satisfied with anything and is in a constant need to do more and get more.

Is there something more to his persona?

Yes there is a darker side to a Scorpio man’s personality. There are certain aspects which I have found unique to Scorpions.

A Scorpio man is afraid of death or disaster. He is therefore an easy victim to superstitions and the knick-knacks that accompany it. He will be taken up by curiosity to know his future and is also likely to take the aid of astrology, tarot reading and numerology to know what is to come. Apart from wealth, prosperity and happiness, the one thing that preoccupies his mind is death…the inevitable stop to all his enterprises.

Another factor that keeps him in check is ‘public’. He knows his image depends a lot on what the general public thinks about him. He is always conscious of his image… including his dress, grooming, the car he travels in, the restaurants he eats at, etc. He is therefore forever striving to make good impression on people around him and create a positive public image and opinion.

How is he when in love?

I think he can go completely blind when in love. Since he is obsessive by nature he gets so when in love. You need to have a lot of energy to keep up with him. He is entertaining, adventurous, fun loving and passionate. But slightest casualness shown by his woman can get him to lose interest and divert his attention elsewhere. He can be unforgiving in situations like these. He expects his partner to be as obsessive as him about their relationship. Another common trait shared with a Aries man.

He has a magnetic personality and women often find themselves gravitating into his field of influence. But he is selective about the women he dates. So no matter how many females fall for him, he will pick the one that fits in his image of a perfect woman.

An important aspect about a Scorpio man’s love is his concept of the ideal. To him the woman in his life should conform to the ideal female he has in his mind… and no that need not be like his mother

Compatibility quotient:

Should one match passion with passion or balance it out with patience and forbearance? Should one submit to possessive or aggressive behaviour or hold one’s stand? Answers to these questions can lead to a better understanding of what compatibility is for a Scorpio man. How easy or difficult is it to get along with a Scorpio guy? Here are some answers.

Scorpio man and…

Aries woman: 7/10. She has the vivacity to match his passionate nature and he has the intensity to keep her interested. But she should learn to curb her controlling nature while he should rest his possessive mind a bit. With a good amount of understanding this relationship can work out pretty well.

Taurus woman: 5/10. A difficult match! Both can try each other’s patience to the extreme. He will find it hard to cope with her stubbornness while she will be perturbed by his secretiveness.

Gemini woman: 4/10. This combination might result in clashes as the Scorpio man is too possessive to suit a Gemini woman. She is also too impatient and wild to be able to adjust with his dominating nature.

Cancer woman: 9/10. These two can between themselves redefine perfection. The passion in him will be complemented by the romantic in her. He will be able to draw her out and she will find it easy to communicate her feelings in his presence. He can give her the security she wants while she will put him on a pedestal…something that would please him infinitely.

Leo woman: 4/10. A good deal of anger management will be required at both ends to make this relationship work. Both are bossy and impatient. She can get frivolous at times while he will find it difficult to fulfil her desires of affection and warmth.

Virgo woman: 8/10. This relationship can go a long way. The Scorpio man’s passion will be matched by the Virgo woman’s romance. Further, they will balance each other well especially with his emotions and her pragmatism. Her femininity will be an add-on.

Libra woman: 6/10. Not a very good match, but it can work if both learn to adjust. His bossiness will irk her while her love for freedom might keep the mercury of his suspicions always on the rise.  

Scorpio woman: 8/10. Once the Scorpio man learns to take the admiring glances thrown at his female counterpart in a sporting way, this relationship can work admirably well. Both share a lot in common and are therefore likely to understand each other better. However, both will have to rein in their egos.

Sagittarius woman: 4/10: This union lacks the basic essentials of a good match. It lacks romance and depth. She is too playful for his passionate disposition, while he is too forceful to suit her outgoing nature.

Capricorn woman: 8/10: A good combination…that works for both. The Scorpio man has the tact of bringing the Capricorn woman out of her shell. She on the other hand will offer the loyalty and dependability he looks for in a woman.

Aquarius woman: 6/10: The success of this union depends on compromises. The Scorpio man can be stumped by the Aquarian’s constant demand for attention. The Aquarius woman would find his sarcastic sense of humour a complete turn off.

Pisces woman: 9.5/10: Jackpot! The Scorpio man and Pisces woman get along really well with each other as they understand each other’s emotional needs. Both have the indispensable elements of loyalty and dependability that the other requires.

Scorpio men celebrities/personalities:

 

Bill Gates

Leonardo DiCaprio

Shah Rukh Khan

Kamal Hassan

Jawaharlal Nehru